Friday, August 24, 2012

Humility / God tugging




Humility is not thinking less of yourself but thinking of yourself less. --C.S. Lewis


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A twelve-year-old boy accepted Jesus Christ as his personal Savior and Lord during a weekend revival meeting. The next week his school friends questioned him about the experience.

"Did you hear God talk?" one asked.

"No," the boy said.

"Did you have a vision?" another asked.

"No, the boy replied.

"Well, how did you know it was God?" a third friend asked.

The boy thought for a moment and then said, "It's like when you catch a fish. You can't see the fish or hear the fish; you just feel him tugging your line. I felt God tugging on my heart."

So often we try to figure out life by what we can see, hear, or experience with our other senses. We make calculated estimates and judgments based on empirical evidence. There's a level of truth, however, that cannot be perceived by the senses or measured objectively. It's at that level where faith abounds. It is our faith that compels us to believe, even when we cannot explain to others why or how or to what specific earthly end.

By our faith we only know in Whom we trust, and that is sufficient. Remember, it's really not the outlook but the uplook that counts.

Chaplain’s Notes

Thursday, August 23, 2012




The Quality of Life

It is very hard to accept an early death.  When friends die who are seventy, eighty, or ninety years old, we may be in deep grief and miss them very much, but we are grateful that they had long lives.  But when a teenager, a young adult, or a person at the height of his or her career dies, we feel a protest rising from our hearts:  "Why?  Why so soon?  Why so young?  It is unfair."

But far more important than our quantity of years is the quality of our lives.  Jesus died young.  St. Francis died young.  St. Thérèse of Lisieux died young, Martin Luther King, Jr., died young.  We do not know how long we will live, but this not knowing calls us to live every day, every week, every year of our lives to its fullest potential.
Henri Nouwen

Saturday, August 18, 2012




Just remember ...
Do not judge by what's on the outside!
Sometimes people are quick
to judge others,
when what you see
isn't really all there.

People have different moods
different personalities
different desires,
so what you're really seeing
is only a mask,
of what others want you to see.

On the inside,
we all have the same desires,
a kind smile,
a warm heart,
a tender soul,
all wanting to be reached
on the inside.

We're all not perfect,
only human,
we'll have ups and downs
like a merry-go-round,
we'll make many mistakes.

But just remember,
the next time you see a person,
do not judge what's on
the outside,
we could be having a bad day.

Try and see on the inside,
and you will see,
the kind smile,
the warm heart,
the tender soul,
reaching out.

Tuesday, August 14, 2012



Ingredients for a wedding

Ingredients

4-lb of love

1-lb of youth

0.5-lb of good looks

1-lb of sweet temper

1-lb of blindness to faults

1-lb of self-forgetfulness

1-lb of powdered wit

1-lb of good humor

2 -tbsp of sweet argument

1- pint of rippling laughter

1- wine glass of common sense

1- oz of modesty

Put the love, good looks and sweet temper into a well-furnished house. Beat the butter of youth to a cream and mix well to blindness of faults.

Stir the pounded wit and good humor in to the sweet argument; then add the rippling laughter and common sense. Work the whole together until everything is mixed and bake gently forever.

(Found in a church book of recipes about 1900AD)

Monday, July 30, 2012

Favorite Teacher




*** Tissue Time ***

You're Still My Favorite Teacher
It began about a teacher who was relishing in giving some kid in her
class a big F in huge red ink. Every thing this kid did in class was
apparently never any better or more deserving than an F, so the
teacher eventually stopped reading his work and would continue just
grading the same, delivering the F. That is all the kid ever earned.
Then one day, she felt a little compelled to look into his past
records which each teacher passes on every year about all their
students. She read early on how he was a good student, and he liked
school. The next year he was making good grades, popular with the
children, and happy in class., and the following year, how he was a
top student, very well liked, and had good behavior...Then in the
following year, the teacher wrote he is doing okay but is sad that his
mother is ill, and the following year, he has a hard time coping with
his mother's death, and in more years, the boy is withdrawn... doesn't
like school, doesn't have friends and is often teased.....

That Christmas the boy gave the teacher a sad little brown (grocery
bag) wrapped present. While all the other children had neat little
paper, and neat little bows, the boy's present was tattered and all
the children laughed. During the day the teacher opened up his
present, and found a rhinestone bracelet with stones missing and a
used bottle of perfume. She put the perfume on and said how she loved
it, and wore the bracelet and told everyone how she loved it
too. She was moved to tears and felt badly for the boy. She also
felt guilty for not having known any of his past. That year, she took
it upon herself to talk to the boy, and to work with him. Soon he
started making an improvement...not only that, he started showing
genuine interest in his work.... eventually joy in his work... before
long he was doing great and had passed his class with great marks.
The next year he wrote to her that he had done well and signed the
letter, "you are still my favorite teacher."
Each year he climbed and climbed. His teacher had long since retired
but every year he would write her and tell her of his achievements.
As the boy grew, he decided to go to college. She was still getting
his letters every few years, and reading, "you are still my favorite
teacher," He went to an accredited college and graduated 3rd with a
bachelor degree. He eventually wrote to her that he was getting his
masters and wanted to be a doctor. Upon graduation he was 1st in his
class, graduating with honors.

He became a doctor, and then one day she received yet another letter
which said, I have decided to marry, will you please sit there with me
where my mother should be? And the teacher said yes. She went to his
ceremony where he married, and she wore an old rhinestone bracelet
with missing stones and some lovely old perfume...
After the ceremony he hugged her and thanked her and said, "you are
still my favorite teacher," And she said, "You know, for so many
years you have had it all wrong. Until I met you, I didn't know how
to teach."

Tuesday, July 24, 2012





Love and Marriage

Kids were invited to answer some important questions about marriage.

How do you decide who to marry?

You got to find somebody who likes the same stuff. Like, if you like sports, she should like it that you like sports, and she should keep the chips and dip coming. -- Alan, age 10

No person really decides before they grow up who they're going to marry. God decides it all way before, and you find out later who you're stuck with. -- Kristen, age 10

What is the right age to get married? Twenty-three is the best age because you know the person FOREVER by then. -- Camille, age 10

How can a stranger tell if two people are married? You might have to guess, based on whether they seem to be yelling at the same kids. -- Derrick, age 8

What do you think your mom and dad have in common? Both don't want any more kids. -- Lori, age 8

What do most people do on a date? Dates are for having fun, and people should use them to get to know each other. Even boys have something to say if you listen long enough. -- Lynnette, age 8

On the first date, they just tell each other lies, and that usually gets them interested enough to go for a second date. -- Martin, age 10

Monday, July 16, 2012

 

The Wounded Healer

Nobody escapes being wounded.  We all are wounded people, whether physically, emotionally, mentally, or spiritually.   The main question is not "How can we hide our wounds?" so we don't have to be embarrassed, but "How can we put our woundedness in the service of others?"  When our wounds cease to be a source of shame, and become a source of healing, we have become wounded healers.

Jesus is God's wounded healer: through his wounds we are healed.  Jesus' suffering and death brought joy and life.  His humiliation brought glory; his rejection brought a community of love.  As followers of Jesus we can also allow our wounds to bring healing to others. 

Henri Nouwen